"It wasn't preaching or programs; what kept me in Church was communion"
("Do This" by Matt via Creative Commons license on Flickr)
I am one of those Millennials who seem to be leaving the
Church in droves (at least, according to everything I’ve been reading in
Christian books, magazines and blogs).
I
grew up in the Church, was home-schooled and spent two years working with a
Christian ministry before heading to a Christian college where I met my
husband. The perfect (American) Christian
story, it seemed.
But I am also a critic.
When I left college, I took a long, hard look at Christianity. I used to believe in all of it. But I was no longer sure. I had seen plenty of people who were Christians
in the same way that other people are golfers.
It was their hobby; it was how they made friends, how they chose their
reading material and it dictated where they spent their Sunday mornings.
But I knew that if I was going to stick with
this Christianity thing, it had to be something more. Like so many of my generation, I wanted to be
a Christian not because I was raised that way, but because I was convinced that
I couldn’t live an honest life apart from Christ.
For a while I wasn’t sure where I would end up. After twenty-four years of weekly sermons and
four years of daily chapel services, I didn’t miss preaching. I found community other places (in our case,
with fellow military families). I
listened to beautiful music, saw beautiful art that spoke to me and propelled
my soul into states of worship. To be unflatteringly frank: I didn’t miss
Church.
But we kept going.
And,
like I assumed proper for a believer, I used small talk and a smile to dam up
my doubts.
Eventually, we started attending a new church. They had good preaching and music. The community was strong. But what struck me was the fact that they
practiced Communion every week. I’ve
attended many churches in my life, but this was the first time where Communion
was an integral and expected part of each service.
The first time I took Communion there, I was left
shaken. “Why?” I wondered. “I’ve taken Communion so many times and never
felt particularly moved.” There were
small differences, actual loaves of bread and goblets of wine, instead of stale
wafers and tiny cups of grape juice. But
there was more.
There was something in Communion that I couldn’t deny.
When my eyes locked into the lay minister’s and he said, “Christ’s Body, broken for you,” I believed him. When I dipped that scrap of bread, humble yet holy, into the communion wine, it sent shivers down my spine. “Christ’s blood, spilled for you.” This was the Gospel, simple and true.
It wasn’t a fancy program or a new method to “reach my
generation.” It was following the example of Christ when He said, “Do this in
remembrance of me.” And I did: I
remembered Him.
When the cynicism of Christianity scabbed over my heart, the
simplicity of the Gospel ripped it open again.
In my remembrance of Him, the offenses I held against the modern Church
faded away.
Had I seen Bible verses spewed
as weapons against those we were supposed to love? Absolutely.
But Christ’s Body was broken for me. Was I disgusted that some Christians (including myself at times) acted
like a person’s love for Jesus could be determined by their hemline or haircut? Yes.
But Christ’s blood was poured out.
For me!
Each week it was the same.
I appreciated that our Church had good music and preaching. And I learned and I grew from those. But what brought me back each week was
Communion. I couldn’t wait until the end
of each service to migrate from our seats to the stations at the front. Each week I went away affected, changed. It never got old.
Shauna Niequist writes in Bread & Wine,
“Like every Christian, I recognize the two as food and drink, and also, at the very same time, I recognize them as something much greater – mystery and tradition and symbol. Bread is bread, and wine is wine, but bread-and-wine is another thing entirely. The two together are the sacred and the material at once, the heaven and earth, the divine and the daily.”
Growing up Protestant, I somehow got the impression that I
shouldn’t take the Lord’s Supper too seriously.
“It’s just a sign, a symbol, after all”, said the voices in my
head. But I stopped caring about those
voices. I wasn’t sure what was going on
as I partook in Communion, but I knew that it was changing me.
In her spiritual memoir about converting to Christianity,
Lauren Winner writes how, before she was even eligible to receive communion,
she insisted on attending a church that practiced it each week. “I didn’t understand what it was, exactly, or
how it worked, but I knew, deeply, that the Eucharist was somehow essential,
that it was the heart of what we do in those spired buildings”.
Her words resonate with me: communion is
the heart of what we do, which makes me wonder why many churches practice it so
infrequently. Why have preaching and
music been elevated to a weekly status, but communion has been pushed to a
monthly or even quarterly occurrence?
It’s as if we’ve somehow decided that God can reach people with words
(preaching), but He doesn’t really use actions (communion).
But sometimes I wonder if there are others
like me in the church; people who have heard enough words and really just want
to see Jesus.
And that is what I love about communion: it is so clearly
about Jesus.
In spite of my cynicism, I couldn’t
deny Him when faced plainly with the truth of His sacrifice: His body, broken,
His blood, spilled. It is Christ, and
him crucified (I Corinthians 2:2).
And after
seeing so many programs aimed at “reaching people”, I appreciate that communion
is free of gimmicks. It’s eating and
drinking, and yet it is so much more. Each
time I partake, I remember that Jesus Himself established this act and that the
church has practiced it through the ages with these same words and these same
elements. Amazing.
Each week my soul is rattled anew as I receive Christ’s body
and blood. What that even means I’m not
even sure. But C.S. Lewis reminds me
that “the command, after all, was Take,
eat: not Take, understand”.
And so, I
take and eat with joy. And hope that one
day, perhaps, I’ll understand.
("Christ Institutes the Eucharist" by Lawrence OP via Creative Commons license on Flickr)
**another post on communion: broken and spilled.
