Judging from this post, I feel like Amanda I would be good friends! I can just hear myself ranting to a friend (namely, Alissa) over these same issues!
http://babybangs.blogspot.com/2009/11/future-trophy-wife.html
p.s. A reader commented that she was trying to keep her daughters' from dressing immodestly and from getting a 'diva' attitude. She summed it up perfectly when she wrote, "Diva is just a fancy for sinner."